Pugin 601 Posted November 25, 2023 (edited) I had a borderline bad experience last night. I had a £23 ticket for an 'Undr the Cosh' performance at Epic in Magdalen Road, with an advertised 7pm start and Iwan Roberts as a guest. I got there at 6.35 and the entrance door were locked. By about 6.40 there were maybe 10 or 12 people outside, where it was cold and wet. At some stage the door was unlocked from inside so we shuffled in to wait by the Reception Desk. Within a few minutes a rude female appeared and told us abruptly to get outside, backed up by two doormen who told me it was for Health and Safety reasons as they did not know us. So out we all went again, to wait in the wet. When the doors were opened as soon as I tried to go in my path was blocked by the younger doorman, who told me agressively that I was on private property. I said 'Don't be a ****' whereupon he then walked into me physically with his face in my face to back me up and out onto the pavement. I am well into my sixties, was dressed smartly, hadn't been drinking, and at no stage did I speak agressively or at all loudly. I was calm, they were agressive. I could see I wouldn't be getting in, so asked for their names, which they refused, so asked if I could take a photo of them. Got a good photo of the younger one whereas the older one gave me a silly grin and a big thumbs up like a naughty five-year-old. Lots of issues arise, and I may contact the promoters, the operators, and the licensing authority. It should all be on video, hopefully with audio. I have thought about going to the Police. It seems crazy, but it may be the only way of preserving the video. I wasn't blameless but what staggered me was the overall conduct of the three people involved. It was throughout rude, agressive, and without any semblance of professionalism. They need training, at the very, very least. Serious thoughts please. I am hopping mad this morning and wonder about next steps. The rude word starts with a t, followed by a w. It is not that rude! Edited November 25, 2023 by Pugin Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
S_81 814 Posted November 25, 2023 One thought - what’s this got to do with Norwich City FC? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Inch High aka Inchy.. 405 Posted November 25, 2023 Or the police? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Wings of a Sparrow 1,423 Posted November 25, 2023 11 minutes ago, S_81 said: One thought - what’s this got to do with Norwich City FC? Did you read the post? 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
The Real Buh 3,446 Posted November 25, 2023 Let’s face it, doormen are huge failures and drug dealers. Everyone knows it. 1 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Wings of a Sparrow 1,423 Posted November 25, 2023 (edited) 23 minutes ago, Pugin said: I had a borderline bad experience last night. I had a £23 ticket for an 'Undr the Cosh' performance at Epic in Magdalen Road, with an advertised 7pm start and Iwan Roberts as a guest. I got there at 6.35 and the entrance door were locked. By about 6.40 there were maybe 10 or 12 people outside, where it was cold and wet. At some stage the door was unlocked from inside so we shuffled in to wait by the Reception Desk. Within a few minutes a rude female appeared and told us abruptly to get outside, backed up by two doormen who told me it was for Health and Safety reasons as they did not know us. So out we all went again, to wait in the wet. When the doors were opened as soon as I tried to go in my path was blocked by the younger doorman, who told me agressively that I was on private property. I said 'Don't be a ****' whereupon he then walked into me physically with his face in my face to back me up and out onto the pavement. I am well into my sixties, was dressed smartly, hadn't been drinking, and at no stage did I speak agressively or at all loudly. I was calm, they were agressive. I could see I wouldn't be getting in, so asked for their names, which they refused, so asked if I could take a photo of them. Got a good photo of the younger one whereas the older one gave me a silly grin and a big thumbs up like a naughty five-year-old. Lots of issues arise, and I may contact the promoters, the operators, and the licensing authority. It should all be on video, hopefully with audio. I have thought about going to the Police. It seems crazy, but it may be the only way of preserving the video. I wasn't blameless but what staggered me was the overall conduct of the three people involved. It was throughout rude, agressive, and without any semblance of professionalism. They need training, at the very, very least. Serious thoughts please. I am hopping mad this morning and wonder about next steps. The rude word starts with a t, followed by a w. It is not that rude! That sounds like really **** poor treatment. I'd definitely write and complain, may not get you anywhere, but it will make you feel better. *P.iss Edited November 25, 2023 by Wings of a Sparrow 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cornish sam 954 Posted November 25, 2023 50 minutes ago, Pugin said: I had a borderline bad experience last night. I had a £23 ticket for an 'Undr the Cosh' performance at Epic in Magdalen Road, with an advertised 7pm start and Iwan Roberts as a guest. I got there at 6.35 and the entrance door were locked. By about 6.40 there were maybe 10 or 12 people outside, where it was cold and wet. At some stage the door was unlocked from inside so we shuffled in to wait by the Reception Desk. Within a few minutes a rude female appeared and told us abruptly to get outside, backed up by two doormen who told me it was for Health and Safety reasons as they did not know us. So out we all went again, to wait in the wet. When the doors were opened as soon as I tried to go in my path was blocked by the younger doorman, who told me agressively that I was on private property. I said 'Don't be a ****' whereupon he then walked into me physically with his face in my face to back me up and out onto the pavement. I am well into my sixties, was dressed smartly, hadn't been drinking, and at no stage did I speak agressively or at all loudly. I was calm, they were agressive. I could see I wouldn't be getting in, so asked for their names, which they refused, so asked if I could take a photo of them. Got a good photo of the younger one whereas the older one gave me a silly grin and a big thumbs up like a naughty five-year-old. Lots of issues arise, and I may contact the promoters, the operators, and the licensing authority. It should all be on video, hopefully with audio. I have thought about going to the Police. It seems crazy, but it may be the only way of preserving the video. I wasn't blameless but what staggered me was the overall conduct of the three people involved. It was throughout rude, agressive, and without any semblance of professionalism. They need training, at the very, very least. Serious thoughts please. I am hopping mad this morning and wonder about next steps. The rude word starts with a t, followed by a w. It is not that rude! If you want to preserve it then you should be able to request a copy of the video under data protection act. Provide the date time and location and request all video of you. They are allowed charge a nominal processing fee, but it must be justifiable and it is legally limited, I'm just not sure what the limit is these days... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ec-p 98 Posted November 25, 2023 (edited) That’s pretty disgraceful behaviour from them. I had a recent experience with Epic Studios not nearly as bad but poor customer service nonetheless. I emailed, using their own contact form, to ask a question regarding seating/standing arrangements for a recent comedy/poetry gig. I am autistic and needed to know in advance the setup. Which I explained to them. No reply. Nothing. Very disappointing service. Due to other family issues I didn’t go anyway in the end. But I still now view them in a negative light. Hope you complain and at least get some sort of apology. Edited November 25, 2023 by ec-p 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Wings of a Sparrow 1,423 Posted November 25, 2023 19 minutes ago, ec-p said: That’s pretty disgraceful behaviour from them. I had a recent experience with Epic Studios not nearly as bad but poor customer service nonetheless. I emailed, using their own contact form, to ask a question regarding seating/standing arrangements for a recent comedy/poetry gig. I am autistic and needed to know in advance the setup. Which I explained to them. No reply. Nothing. Very disappointing service. Due to other family issues I didn’t go anyway in the end. But I still now view them in a negative light. Hope you complain and at least get some sort of apology. Again, that's terrible customer service. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
canarydan23 4,060 Posted November 25, 2023 Was it Regency? They do tend to employ a high proportion of ****** with very little between their ears. I wasn't let into the Glasshouse after a Norwich game last season, no idea why and they wouldn't explain, so I had a heated discussion, called them a few things and was then told they'd make sure I couldn't get served anywhere else in Norwich. I wandered a few dozen feet to the Louis Marchesi and successfully ordered a pint. I made sure to take it outside and shout a hearty cheers down the road to the pair of twats. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GJL Mid-Norfolk Canary 1,788 Posted November 25, 2023 This is just doormen the country over....meatheads who enjoy their little moment of power 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hucks6 169 Posted November 25, 2023 Most of them are a poor excuse for human beings Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Worthy Nigelton 1,057 Posted November 25, 2023 Unfortunately (and I know I'm stereotyping) but they're as thick as mince and bullies. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Pugin 601 Posted November 25, 2023 Well it's about time that decent prople bit back. Thanks for the encouragement. I might just go to town with this. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
If wed kept Howie.. 208 Posted November 25, 2023 you probably shouldn't have called him a "t***" 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Pugin 601 Posted November 25, 2023 Just now, If wed kept Howie.. said: you probably shouldn't have called him a "t***" True. I shouldn't have. But the definition is 'a stupid and obnoxious person', so in the heat of the moment it was't a bad word selection. Would it have been OK to call him stupid and obnoxious? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
If wed kept Howie.. 208 Posted November 25, 2023 Just now, Pugin said: True. I shouldn't have. But the definition is 'a stupid and obnoxious person', so in the heat of the moment it was't a bad word selection. Would it have been OK to call him stupid and obnoxious? some people will react more to certain words.. especially when their authority is being challenged (even if they have no real authority).. Would it have been OK to call him stupid and obnoxious? I'd say no, but then i'm not you and wasn't in the situation you were in. Heat of the moment makes people do stuff they shouldn't do, which is why its a viable criminal defence in some situations. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
chicken 2,635 Posted November 25, 2023 I'd contact epic and explain to them. The door staff are usually part of a company they contract in, so they may well raise it with them too. That's where I would start. I always give people a chance to put it right before going higher up the chain so to speak. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wcorkcanary 4,334 Posted November 25, 2023 4 hours ago, The Real Buh said: Let’s face it, doormen are huge failures and drug dealers. Everyone knows it. Often Steroids, which ironically makes them bigger failures. You're welcome. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ken Hairy 3,774 Posted November 25, 2023 Been there once, the doorstaff were jumped up little Hitlers who couldn't organise a **** up, which is a shame as that's what is was 🤣 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
daly 506 Posted November 25, 2023 (edited) Its a dump anyway PS like the whole street What a let down by Norwich CityLabour Council Edited November 25, 2023 by daly Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Thirsty Lizard 3,169 Posted November 25, 2023 12 minutes ago, daly said: Its a dump anyway PS like the whole street What a let down by Norwich CityLabour Council Not a single Tory on Norwich City Council - and that's just the way the people of Norwich like it, so bore off you rightwing idiot. 5 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
daly 506 Posted November 25, 2023 4 minutes ago, Thirsty Lizard said: Not a single Tory on Norwich City Council - and that's just the way the people of Norwich like it, so bore off you rightwing idiot. Yes your labour council are doing a great job Closing Streets Trebling Market stall rents Cities a mess traffic wise thanks to your lot Remember the days when if you’d put an Alsatian dog forward with a Labour Rosette forward he’d get in ANYWAY this is a football forum Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
daly 506 Posted November 25, 2023 PS Got to be Right Wing if i make a statement that doesn’t go along with your thoughts Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Yobocop 1,102 Posted November 25, 2023 12 hours ago, Pugin said: I had a borderline bad experience last night. I had a £23 ticket for an 'Undr the Cosh' performance at Epic in Magdalen Road, with an advertised 7pm start and Iwan Roberts as a guest. I got there at 6.35 and the entrance door were locked. By about 6.40 there were maybe 10 or 12 people outside, where it was cold and wet. At some stage the door was unlocked from inside so we shuffled in to wait by the Reception Desk. Within a few minutes a rude female appeared and told us abruptly to get outside, backed up by two doormen who told me it was for Health and Safety reasons as they did not know us. So out we all went again, to wait in the wet. When the doors were opened as soon as I tried to go in my path was blocked by the younger doorman, who told me agressively that I was on private property. I said 'Don't be a ****' whereupon he then walked into me physically with his face in my face to back me up and out onto the pavement. I am well into my sixties, was dressed smartly, hadn't been drinking, and at no stage did I speak agressively or at all loudly. I was calm, they were agressive. I could see I wouldn't be getting in, so asked for their names, which they refused, so asked if I could take a photo of them. Got a good photo of the younger one whereas the older one gave me a silly grin and a big thumbs up like a naughty five-year-old. Lots of issues arise, and I may contact the promoters, the operators, and the licensing authority. It should all be on video, hopefully with audio. I have thought about going to the Police. It seems crazy, but it may be the only way of preserving the video. I wasn't blameless but what staggered me was the overall conduct of the three people involved. It was throughout rude, agressive, and without any semblance of professionalism. They need training, at the very, very least. Serious thoughts please. I am hopping mad this morning and wonder about next steps. The rude word starts with a t, followed by a w. It is not that rude! Wouldn’t worry about it mate - you’d have forgotten about it by next week, it’s a bit raw at the minute if you’re that worried, look at your photos and contact the security company as opposed to the promoters or venue, you’ll more likely get a response that way Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Thirsty Lizard 3,169 Posted November 25, 2023 15 minutes ago, daly said: Yes your labour council are doing a great job Closing Streets Trebling Market stall rents Cities a mess traffic wise thanks to your lot Remember the days when if you’d put an Alsatian dog forward with a Labour Rosette forward he’d get in ANYWAY this is a football forum Says the poster who gratuitously shoe horned a pathetic dig at the Labour Council into a thread about something else entirely. You don't do self awareness do you? 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nexus_Canary 1,024 Posted November 25, 2023 Too many roids and not enough brains = the problem with many doormen. Put it down to a bad experience and dont go there again, Ive heard Epic studios can be a bit ropey. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nutty nigel 7,552 Posted November 25, 2023 I honestly believe some people view life as though they are under their party whip... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Pyro Pete 1,902 Posted November 26, 2023 1 hour ago, daly said: Yes your labour council are doing a great job Closing Streets Cities a mess traffic wise thanks to your lot Norfolk County Council are responsible for our roads. Which is controlled by the Conservatives. 1 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Wacky Waving Inflatable Arm Flailing Tube Man 3,822 Posted November 26, 2023 1 hour ago, daly said: PS Got to be Right Wing if i make a statement that doesn’t go along with your thoughts I'd say that the several xenophobic anti-immigrant posts you've made in the past make you right wing, rather than anything else. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites