I do appreciate your condolences and kind thoughts about my father. I haven''t registered with this site to discuss the subject, no disrespect, but our family are thankful for your words and memories you gave my father in his later years. The main reason was we have been receiving continuous calls since yesterday tea time and apparently someone from this forum has shared my fathers personal information and other relatives and friends. I don''t want to cause any ill feeling but it please has to stop as its upsetting especially for my mother who has still not come to terms with his passing. He had great thoughts of you all, I did used to look at his posts on occasion and know he thought a lot of the likes of Shack, City Angel, First Wizard, Evil Monkey, Mr Chops to name a few of many, and impossible to name you all he mentioned, he enjoyed banter and friendship. I know a lot of things he said were offensive and he would even acknowledge that, but he was stubborn as you probably gathered. He even had a soft spot for Dela despite what he said on here and I shared many late night chats over a few spirits where he would admit she was a great ambassador and her heart is in the right place. He did have a couple of her cookbooks which is something he was probably reluctant to tell you. Hopefully we can push for the FA cup tomorrow a trophy he longed to see us win over the league title, an old romantic at heart. May he rest in peace and once again we really do appreciate your kindness but please respect our privacy and anyone passing personal numbers of our family and friends please realize you are stirring people''s emotions. Best wishes. OTBC